HOW DO MUSLIMS
TREAT THE ELDERLY?
In the Islamic world there
are no old people’s homes. The strain of caring for one’s parents in this most
difficult time of their lives is considered an honor and blessing, and an
opportunity for great spiritual growth. God asks that we not only pray for our
parents, but act with limitless compassion, remembering that when we were
helpless children they preferred us to themselves. Mothers are particularly
honored: the Prophet taught that ‘Paradise lies at the feet of mothers’. When
they reach old age, Muslim parents are treated mercifully, with the same
kindness and selflessness.
In Islam, serving
one’s parents is a duty second only to prayer, and it is their right to expect
it. It is considered despicable to express any irritation when, through no
fault of their own, the old become difficult.
The Quran says: Your Lord has
commanded that you worship none but Him, and be kind to parents. If either or
both of them reach old age with you, do not say ‘uff to them or chide them, but
speak to them in terms of honor and kindness. Treat them with humility, and
say, ‘My Lord! Have mercy on them, for they did care for me when I was little’.
(17:23-4)
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